Virtual Book Club: “Heartburn” by Nora Ephron

Heartburn is a story about heartache. The story takes place over the course of a few weeks starting when Rachel—our main character, is seven months pregnant with her second child. She talks about how the worst part of pregnancy has been the heartburn. We talk about heartburn in the medical sense and the metaphorical sense. In the first few sentences we learn that Rachel’s husband is having an affair and has been for the past six months. The betrayal—it makes her heart burn. The pregnancy gave her actual heartburn.225343

Released in 1982, this book was based on Nora Ephron’s own life—the main character is even a writer like she is, albeit a “cookbook writer”. She hated it when people called here merely a cookbook writer because to her it was so much more than that—she wrote stories about her real life and happened to include recipes. This book was written in the exact same style, by the way. Stories of her real life punctuated with recipes for the noteworthy foods that they’d eaten: a peach pie on vacation or a roast chicken. My favorite was the list of different types of potatoes that one eats at different points during the progression of a relationship. Crispy potatoes to serve two in the beginning and mashed potatoes for one at the inevitable end.

This story could have been so much more bitter and angry and sad than it turned out to be and it would have been completely understandable—and there’s totally a market for that, too. But Nora Ephron took every opportunity to expose the humor in the situation. Like when she drove back home after he’d begged her to come back, “’Maybe he’s missed me’, I thought as we came around the corner. ‘Maybe he’s come to his senses. Maybe he’s remembered he loves me. Maybe he’s full of remorse’. There was a police car parked in front of the house. ‘Maybe he’s dead’, I thought. That wouldn’t solve everything, but it would solve a few things. He wasn’t, of course. They never are. When you want them to die, they never do.’ Nora Ephron’s wit is savage.

This wasn’t a perfect novel by any means. I’d probably give it 3.5 stars out of 5 just because I was having trouble relating to any of the characters or the world in which they lived. But it was really great and fun and had me laughing out loud numerous times. And I can’t recommend the audiobook enough—it’s narrated by the one and only Meryl Streep who starred in the film adaptation of Heartburn in 1986. And she reads the book as only she can.
Just for fun, here’s a trailer for the film:


cropped-margaret-atwoods-the-hand-007For the month of March we’re reading a book that I’m simultaneously thrilled and nervous about. The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood. It’s being made into a television series on Hulu featuring some of my favorite actresses. Also, on the Call Your Girlfriend podcast this week, Aminatou said that she was reading it for the first time and Anne mentioned that now must be such a terrifying moment in history to be experiencing this book as a first timer. And I was like, “Oh, great. Cool. V excited about this.” But we’ll make it through and I can’t waaaaait to get to discuss it in our book club. If you want to get in on our virtual book club discussions, message me on Facebook and get in on this action!

What do you think? What have you read by Nora Ephron?

Virtual Book Club: The Secret Life of Wonder Woman by Jill Lepore

I know I’ve told you about our Facebook Virtual Book Club group before, right? Things are slowly but surely getting more and more interactive over there. Starting with the fact that this was the first month we were ever able to take a poll to decide which book we should read! We took another poll recently and if you make it to the end of this post, you’ll see what the group’s decided to read next. In addition, we also held a virtual book club meeting last night! A few of us all got on Facebook at the same time (which is difficult when the group is split in half by a two hour time difference) and discussed. It was a lot of fun to have people to unpack this with and I hope you join us next month. As always, if you want to be a part just let me know and I’ll add you!

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At first sight The Secret History of Wonder Woman looks like a really fun, light read. My copy was well over 400 pages—which was very intimidating to me as I’m a pretty slow reader. I was encouraged, though, by the fact that the back 1/3 of the book was source material in addition to the plethora of photographs and cartoons littered on every other page (there’s also a large section of color pieces in the middle—which was terribly interesting to get into). So while by all intents and purposes it looks easy—the literature most certainly was not. This book had facts on facts on facts. I feel like Lepore laid out the material as straightforward as she possibly could but this story was just… complex. She did an incredible job of knowing exactly what to do with the material before her.

While this is called The Secret History of Wonder Woman, I feel like it should have been called The Secret History of William Marston (though I can’t imagine that selling as many copies). William Marston was the creator of Wonder Woman (he was also a lawyer, a professor, the creator of the lie detector test, among so many other things). The book starts with his birth, goes through college, all of his many jobs, and goes on past his death. It also goes into the many women that Marston surrounded himself with throughout his life.

He met his first wife, Sadie Holloway, when they were of middle-school age. They married when they were both in law school. Sadie was an ardent feminist and Marston truly believed that the world should, and one day would, be run by women. Sadie knew that she wanted to have a career—something completely unheard of for a married woman during the turn of the 20th century. She also knew that she wanted to have kids as well. And when Marston approached her about opening up their marriage to bring in Olive Byrne (who just so happened to be the niece of Margret Sanger) as well—Sadie seized her opportunity. For the remainder of their lives together, Sadie was the primary breadwinner for the whole family while Olive raised the children. Though the “why” was rarely discussed, it seems that Marston was unable to keep a job for more than a year at a time. That is, until Wonder Woman came into his life.

I won’t go further into the details of the book because I’m finding (as I’m sure Jill Lepore did) that you really can’t get too far in without going all the way in and I just don’t have time to write 400 pages. Suffice it to say that when you pick up this book you’re also getting a primer on first wave feminism. You’ll learn a lot about Margaret Sanger and her sister who both went to prison simply for telling other women that there were things one could do in order to avoid another pregnancy (in the judge’s ruling he proclaimed that if a woman wasn’t willing to die in childbirth she should simply never have sex).

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I found this recounting particularly heartbreaking.

You’ll see the parts of Marston’s life that popped up time and time again as themes throughout Wonder Woman. You’ll get to see how a unique (and illegal) family structure managed to raise a happy family despite the secrets that they were forced to keep. And you’ll see how many ways a person’s life can twist, turn, and change before finally finding what it feels like you were meant to do.

Despite its size, I found this book to be a real page turner. Every chapter was truly fascinating—and I’m usually not a non-fiction reader at all. I find them boring. I’d rather get my lessons in the form of a TedTalk or a documentary but this managed to hold my attention and make me constantly say to myself, “wait, whaaaat??”

All that to say if you find any one of the following topics even vaguely interesting, you’ll probably do yourself a favor by picking up this book: early feminism, lie detectors, 20th century politics, polygamy, artists and illustrators, plural families, and there’s a little bit about comic books, too.

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Since February is a short month (and because we just finished a mammoth of a book and we deserve a break) we decided to go with a shorter read. The book the group decided on was Heartburn by Nora Ephron (it’s less than 200 pages). I’ve never read anything by Nora Ephron but I adore her movies and I’m very excited to get started on this one!

What do you think? Have you read any non-fiction books that turned out to be far more than you were bargaining for when you first started?
Have you read anything by Nora Ephron? Let me know what you thought in the comments!

XOXO, Libby

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Virtual Book Club: Someday, Someday, Maybe by Lauren Graham + December’s Book Club Reveal!

This month, we were looking for a light, fun book. In October, we read a spooky ghost story. We were growing desperately weary with election coverage and the general onset of colder times. We wanted something nice. We wanted something that felt like… like putting on your jammies and watching Gilmore Girls. We deserved it! So we decided, what better place to go looking for that kind of a vibe than by reading a book written by Lauren Graham aka Lorelei Gilmore! I mean, that will do it. And you know what? This book read exactly like I would expect a Gilmore Girls script to read (I mean the plot and characters and most everything was completely different but it read very GG-y IMO).

The book opens with Franny realizing that she’s got exactly 6 months left on her deadline to make it as an actor before she decides to cash out, move back home, marry her college sweetheart, and get a normal job. This book follows her for the next six months as she nears her deadline.
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Virtual Book Club: Why Not Me by Mindy Kaling + October’s Book Choice Reveal

In the early introduction of this book, Mindy Kaling says something along the lines of, “in my twenties I wanted to be liked and in my thirties I want to be known.” And that was how I knew that I would really like this book. Because if there’s anything I can relate to, that’s it. And that’s a lot of the reason that I’m happy to be well past my twenties. I’m so over trying to be liked. I just want to be known.

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Virtual Book Club: We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie + August Book Choice Reveal

I became familiar with Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie through her TEDxEuston talk, We Should All Be Feminists—from which this book was adapted. My friend, Jessica, reminded me that I also knew of her from Beyonce’s video for Flawless.

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